Why do boys always say they look for kind heart in girls but all they see is only beauty?

Girls, what do you think?


If you're a boy and you feel offended about what i said, sorry, so come on tell me what you have in mind..





I said this because i have known some boys who said that but actually what attracted them was only beauty or something like that. And i think most of boys are the same.Why do boys always say they look for kind heart in girls but all they see is only beauty?
not all of them...Why do boys always say they look for kind heart in girls but all they see is only beauty?
well for starters attraction has to start somewhere. if your beautiful it starts out a lot easier because were already attracted to you physically. physical attraction is what turns us on to a girl in the first place so if your not attractive you have to work harder to show off your good qualities, be a genuinely nice person with a good heart and guys will choose you over a hot b*tch. it works the same for both genders in my opinion
i'm not sure, but i do know all that high school boys see is the outside. but lets be realistic here most girls dont just go for a guy soley based on there personality. like chances are you will not go for a guy that is ugly and great personality. like i'll be honest and its pretty shallow but i want a hot guy or good looking too.
You'd be surprised. Most guys readily admit that looks are their number 1 criterion. Chicks are the ones who lie and say they want an affectionate man when they really want a macho stud or some rich guy.





The few guys who pretend they want a sweet girl more than a hottie are lame. And they're outnumbered.
that Beauty thing is really annoying me


i really don't care about the look


i would like to see my gf dressing beautiful stuff


but the love isn't about the beauty


its about the heart inside you
Most are hoping for a two in one combo deal. Good looks , good heart .


Some genuinely see the beauty inside plain packaging .


Some just prefer Plain Janes , as they feel less threatened .


How would you like it if you were told most girls are the same ?
If a guy says that he looks for a kind heart, but then says all he can see is your beauty, maybe he's trying to tell you that you don't have a kind heart.
Because not everyone can be beautiful on both the inside and outside, that takes good genes and skill.





Of course personality is important, but no one is going to date someone who they do not find attractive.
i think bottom line is that men or boys have the tendency to go for the more attractive girls. they dont really care for the ';kind heart'; i personally would go looks then personality. i know im a pig.
That's weird. Cause the guys I know just admit they look for beauty. Don't even deny it. Small @ss, small breast, skinny skinny skinny, rise up shorts, cleavage tops...etc. Not all guys of course, just the ones I know PERSONALLY.
I know what you mean,


i also think its girls aswell.. you know how they go ';as long as they are nice and sweet and fun too be around =]'; bla bla bla when really, they're probably the most Shallow people you know...
Let's just face it, we're just animals - just more civilised and developed.





Our natural instincts never cared about people's personality, it's only the physical appearance that counts...
Because people lie to themselves and to everyone else.





But ugly people can get dates too. They just have to lower their standards themselves.
Boys think with their southern brain. They will do and say whatever they need to do or say to get girls to exercise their brain.
why do girls say they want a nice guy but they always go for the jerks?








..yup i just answered your question with a question that doesnt answer your question.
well, nless you get to know a girl the first thing you notice about them is if there beautiful or not, like you've never liked a guy cz he's hot
they say that to get to the girl becuase they'll get the girl to think they're oh so intact with their feelings -___-


too bad this happens
beauty is the bait.





A kind heart is the taste.
Well I do not look for kind heart because I am young but when I become older I'll have to look for kind heart.
Well, not a lot of guys are gonna say that about an ugly girl. ';You have such a kind heart for being so ugly.';
';I look for the kind heart but those boobies always distract me.';





you poor thing...
I look for the kind heart but those boobies always distract me.
I like a kind heart. That would attract me more than anything.
Just keep looking ... they're out there and they're worth the wait.
guys are superficial egomaniac whores. not to mention pigs.


so yeah i agree with u.
some guys are different. a lot of them like the looks...the ones who dont...well, they might not be so hott lmao
some boys are shallow.
because of the ';Stick';...
Just deal with it, this is the truth.
where are those boys who look for a kind heart?? I ain't ever met any